Delilah lived another 18 years, dying in 1900 at age 65. She spent those years working for civil rights, using her voice to tell the story of slavery and freedom, teaching young people about the importance of choosing justice over comfort.
We’re buried together in Spring Grove Cemetery in Cincinnati under a shared headstone that reads:
Thomas Bowmont Callahan Freeman (1840-1882) and Delilah Freeman (1835-1900) Married 1859 They chose freedom over comfort, love over convention, and proved that human worth cannot be determined by physical ability or social status.
Our three children all lived successful lives of service. Sarah’s school educated over a thousand freed slaves. Frederick’s medical practice served Cincinnati’s black community for 40 years. Liberty’s legal work helped dismantle segregation laws and protect civil rights.
In 1920, Liberty published a book titled From Property to Partnership: The Story of Thomas and Delilah Freeman. It told our story—the white man society called unfit for breeding and the enslaved woman society called property, and how we both found freedom and love by rejecting the labels others put on us.
This is the story of Thomas Bowmont Callahan Freeman and Delilah Freeman who left Mississippi in May 1859 and built a life in Cincinnati, Ohio. It’s the story of a man society called defective and a woman society called property who proved that human worth isn’t determined by physical capability or legal status, but by the choices we make and the dignity we afford ourselves and others.
Historical records document our existence. Thomas’s birth in 1840, his medical examinations in 1858, and the trust fund withdrawals in 1859. Delilah’s sale to Judge Callahan is recorded in plantation ledgers from 1850. Cincinnati city directories list Thomas Freeman as a law clerk from 1859 to 1882 and Delilah Freeman as a seamstress from 1859-1900. Our marriage, while not recognized by state law, was recorded by the Quaker meeting house that performed the ceremony. Our children’s birth records and adoption papers survive in Cincinnati archives.
Our gravestone remains in Spring Grove Cemetery, visited occasionally by descendants and historians interested in unconventional stories of freedom and love from the slavery era.
The story challenges assumptions about disability, race, and worth. Thomas wasn’t broken because his body didn’t develop normally; he was intelligent, moral, and capable of profound courage. Delilah wasn’t property; despite the law saying she was, she was strong, intelligent, and deserving of freedom and self-determination. And Judge Callahan’s plan, meant to ensure his legacy, instead catalyzed something more valuable: two people finding freedom and building lives based on choice, dignity, and love.
If Thomas and Delilah’s story moves you, if you believe human worth transcends physical ability and legal status, if you believe love and freedom can triumph even in the darkest times, then share this story. Remember that history is filled with people who defied impossible odds, who chose justice over comfort, who proved that labels don’t define us.
Our choices do.
Their legacy lives on in descendants who continue working for justice, in the example they set of choosing morality over convenience, and in the reminder that every person deserves freedom, dignity, and the chance to write their own story.
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